Tips for a lovely story

You do not need to be a writer or a speaker. These tips will help you along.

Mention names, places and years

"My uncle" becomes "my uncle Henk, my mother's brother". "Back then" becomes "in the winter of 1963, in Zwolle". That way your grandchildren will know exactly who and where it was about.

Tell what you saw, heard and smelled

What did the kitchen look like? Which song was on the radio? What did you eat on Sundays? Those small things are what bring a memory to life.

Say how you felt

Were you frightened, proud, in love or angry? Your feelings make the story yours.

One memory is enough

You do not have to tell your whole life in one answer. Pick one moment and tell it well. Other memories will come with the next questions.

A detour is welcome

Does something else come to mind? Feel free to tell it. Often those are the loveliest parts.

Find a quiet spot

• Turn off the radio or television.
• Sit by the window, so you can be seen clearly.
• Stand your phone up firmly, for example against a book, so your hands are free.

Not sure what to say?

Tap "Would you rather have another question?". You will then get another question that you have not answered yet.